2006-10-03T06:52:00.000-07:00

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Name:Tony Ace
Nationality:Nigeria
Identiy:African
Height:5.8
Educational Qualification:University Diploma
Hobbies:Reading, Swimming, Learning. Likes:Honesty
Dislikes:Fakes
Inspiration:Sucessful people i.e Joel Comm
Goals for the moment:Internet Marketing
Goals for the future:Rap artiste/Movie enterprenuer.

2006-08-18T06:42:00.000-07:00

WOMEN

Hello and welcome to my blog. I am Tony Ace. Today I will be talking about women and dating.

Women in my Life:

my experience with women has been that of a bitter-sweet experience. Growing up in a country like Nigeria (in the 'eighties) could be rather tough for a little guy who has no pre-knowledge about girls and their passions. Naturally, I was a shy kid and even if I did well in my school sporting activities and games, I couldn't get myself to chat amiably with the girls. While other boys who probably weren't gifted in that area were able to chat easily with the girls, all I could do was watch from a distance. However whenever I tried to get the girls attention, it somehow turns into a kind of fiasco. Either I was saying something off the point to them which seems naturally okay to me or I was acting awkward. Whatever the reason was I never seemed to go far with the ladies. The fear of rejection terrified me!

So as I grew older, I found myself always stuck to a quick-fix kind of relationships with the ladies. I had them one day gone the next. It didn't matter that I was good looking or gentlemanly. They were always finding one problem or the other with me. I hate to admit this but I have had my heart broken more than once in the cause of trying to please, in my relationships. I had to find a way to overcome this problem.

Nevertheless, the ladies that graced my life were the best I could ever wished for even if I only had their love temporarily. If they ever come across my web log, I hope they know that they meant so much to me and I still love them.

The Hype About Women

Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted to "nice" guys?

Of course you have.

Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that always seemed to date "jerks"... but for some reason they were never romantically interested in YOU. And you wonder what the catch is!?

Guys believe me then when I tell you that women are some kind of enigma. Women don't base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them. Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION. An attractive woman is often approached several times a DAY by men who are interested. This translates into dozens of times per week, and often HUNDREDS of times per month. And guess what? Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of men. Now you see where are going with this! That's right. They have EXPERIENCE.

MY ASSERTION ABOUT WOMEN.

We men can't deny it. Women are our driving force. We would feel incomplete without them. Every once in a while, (at work, play or anywhere) our thoughts drift back to our wives, girlfriends, even our date or a certain lady we desire. We are prone to changing our lifestyles; hairstyles, dress code and even our attitudes just to please them. We find ourselves constantly changing because of this that it sort of drives us crazy. Then we wonder who really is in control. In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly think will make them like us), we guys are always doing things to get a woman's "approval" or "permission". HORRIBLE idea!! Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them… EVER. Don't get me wrong here. You don't have to treat women BADLY for them to like you. Yet you will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek their approval.

THE ESSENCE.

What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they REALLY like... but she's just not interested? what is the rule to please women? The rules of dating? What have i been doing wrong all the while and why wasn't i getting dates as i should?

QUESTION!!

How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had she REJECT you for someone who didn't treat her even HALF as well as you did?

If you're like me, then you've had it happen a LOT. Well guess what? It's only NATURAL when this happens... That's right, I said NATURAL. When you do these things, you send a clear message: "I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I'm going to try to buy your attention and affection". This is the PROBLEM!!!

BACK TO THE BASIS.

So what I have I done lately?? I made a thorough research on the subject and now I can confidently proclaim that I have found the key! It has been a very rewarding experience. I no longer feel that sick, insecure feeling... like I don't know how to meet women... and I might wind up alone. No more worries, no more lonely nights!!!

So here, I have compiled some comprehensive analysis of what most guys have not been doing right all along to win women to their side. Here are some of the articles on the subject:

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BASICS.

Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men... and they're attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone. Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around? If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.

Body Language.

Now, since reading a woman's body language is only part of the solution to getting her attention, it is pertinent that men must understand and interpret this signs they give out. And I'm not talking about glaring at a woman so it's obvious, or licking your lips! I'm talking about the teasing, the tantalizing, the posturing you need to do to show you're worth her time. Of course, you can never know enough about what signal a woman is sending you, or how you need to respond to them. But you can show off your Interest and see how they respond.

Here are proven "Seven Lucky" best ways to show interest:

The confident eye gaze
The "Dale Head Drop"
Smile!
Open body language
Lean in to her
Thumbs in belt
Touch her

Any of these goes a long way in arousing the lady's interest. Now am not claiming to be a guru when it comes to relating cordially with women but like I said this are some of the tested techniques proven over time by experts.

Let's look at each in details:

1. The confident eye gaze

This is how you start your interest. Nothing shows confidence off the bat like meeting a girl's eyes, and KEEPING YOUR STARE. If you see her look down and smile, you know you've made it and thetime to approach is now. If she looks away from you but doesn'tsmile, give her a shot nonetheless; just the fact that she met youreyes for a second or two shows interest.

2. The Dale Head Drop

So named after the guy who mastered the art of getting women rushing to his side, just with a simple shrug! If you really want to blow away a girl--and show some balls--meet a girl's eyes, then knowingly drop your head to the side, as if to say, "Hey, you know you want me. Come over here and get me!" I've found this to work incredibly well in foreign countries. In the States, the girls tend to be able to see through it a bit more--but it still works!

3. Smile!

It's often overlooked, but nothing communicates happiness, confidence, and interest in a girl all in one like a nice big smile. Show the girl you're in control, show her you're confident,show her you're a fun guy to be around: brighten the place up witha flash of teeth! And if your teeth need work, then get them fixed! It's good not just for your chances of meeting a girl, but also foryour health and appearance!

4. Open Body Language

So many guys walk or sit with their arms crossed, their legs close together, and their faces anxious and flat. Stop that! Welcome a girl into your world: Have your arms open and leaned back, your legs open and relaxed, your face warm and inviting. You'll not only attract yourself into a girl's world, but also into the world of people at a party, club, or bar who can help you meet a future girlfriend--or even wife!

5. Lean in to her

As you're talking to a girl, especially while seated; show her your interest with confidence by leaning in closer. You don't want to be a creep, of course, but you can generally tell by a girl's body language and talk how interested she is in you. If things are looking good, show her your control of the situation--and interest in her--by leaning in and generally getting closer to her. Leaning back does the opposite; it shows you're unconfident and not overly interested. Not what you want to communicate.

6. Thumbs in belt

Ever put your thumbs in your belt, with your hands at your hips’ side? This is processed as a sign of being confident in one's sexuality and size. So if you're standing around at a bar or club and want to convey confidence, this will certainly be understood by girls!

7. Touch her!

Yep, nothing gets you closer to a girl than physical touch. Great conversations and emotional/spiritual chemistry are great, but if you really want to take it to the next level, you'll have to eventually show some balls and touch her. I'm not talking about grabbing her and making out (unless it really is going that well and she's flirting out of control!), but doing little things: brushing your arm by her shoulders, lightly massaging her, leading her by the hand to another location in the place. By making a physical connection, you're giving her a sign loud and clear that you're confident in yourself and interested in her.

END OF ANALYSIS

MATERIALISM

One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they've even gotten started... because they think that attractive women are only interested in men who have looks and money... or guys who are a certain height... or guys who are a certain age. And sure, there are some women who are only interested in these things. But MOST women are far more interested in a man's personality than his wallet or his looks.

What do women want?

The answer isn't easy to come by. There are as many answers as there are types of women: young, old; fat, skinny; talkative, quiet; beautiful...not so beautiful. They all want different things, different men for their different personalities. It's enough to drive a man crazy! We want to know so badly what it is women desire that Hollywood addressed the age-old question with the movie:” What Women Want" (which, I must say, I enjoyed).

So, surely...there must be something ALL women want?

PERSONALITY TRAITS

There are personality traits that attract women like a magnet...There are certain qualities every woman can appreciate. And as men, that's what we need to focus on most. Not on what we THINK they want, but on what we can KNOW they want. Maybe we think being 6"5", wealthy, and jacked like a football player is what every woman wants, but (thankfully) it's not. Only certain women want that, and the groupies who only want a millionaire athlete on steroids usually aren't even worth your time. Well, YOU DO NOT have to "settle" for a woman just because you aren't rich, tall, or handsome.

Let me say this again: If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.

FACT

I know that there are several other things men can do to promote their image and get women to love and cherish them. I also believe that with women, it depends on the effort you make to get their attention and keep it on you. But the best thing to note is, you really do not have to do anything to get a woman to like or respect you. All you need is being yourself. Women will love you more when they get to know you the way you are and that you are no pretender just trying to get their attention. A real woman will love a man for what he is and nothing more.

END

2006-08-15T11:52:00.000-07:00

Hi there. Thank you for reading this far. I hope you are more enlighten now about my topic. Feel free to leave your comments and hope you will check back soon. Hope to have updated by then. Thanks once again.

Tony Ace.

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